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Robert Gagnon's Answers to Emails on the Bible and Homosexuality I

 

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Index

Here is a list of the email subjects with dates. For text, scroll down below. They are in order of date, most recent first.

5/9/08: Response to a skeptical evangelical leader who wants to know whom I have "'delivered' from homosexual orientations"

4/18/08: What about no reproduction in heaven and the existence of "complementary" homosexual unions?

4/16/08: A question from a seminary student about the exploitation argument

9/5/07: A testimony from a pastor who has dealt with bisexual urges

9/5/07: Is heterosexual cohabitation grounds for denying church membership?

6/15/07: Did Jesus Change the Law's Stance on Capital Sentencing?

5/8/07: Hate Mail from an Angry Left-of-Center Pastor with a "Wonderful" Pastoral Manner

4/26/07: A question about eternal security and sexual immorality

4/25/07: Do you think I would still go to heaven when I die if I am in a lesbian relationship?

4/8/07: Jack Rogers and Analogies

3/31/07: A person with homosexual desire asks: How does one decide which commands of God in Scripture to follow?

3/10/07: Where have I spoken about why women's ordination is a bad analogy for accepting homosexual practice?

3/10/07: Email from a father whose teenage son has "come out," on my "Two Views" book

2/2/07: Why Meeting Nice "Gay" and Lesbian Persons Should Not Lead to Approval of Homosexual Practice

1/18/07: Jesus, eunuchs, and the allegation of a 'gay Jesus'

10/17/03 (revisited 12/26/06): A heartfelt email from a woman with same-sex attractions

12/20/06: Where do I stand on registered homosexual partnerships?

12/04/06: Do I operate with a notion of mind/body dualism or "physicalism"?

12/04/06: How did I get so involved in the topic of homosexuality?

12/04/06: What's a Layperson to Do?

11/17-25/06: Correspondence with a student at Eastern University promoting a "noncontextual perspective and "trusting my own judgment"

11/22/06: Response to a person who thinks that my non-biblical arguments are not strong

11/14/06: Question about books or resources for counseling persons with same-sex attractions

11/14/06: Differences of opinion about the relevance of menstrual law and whether the Law is abrogated in Christ

11/2/06: Questions about Jack Rogers's claim that 1 Cor 6:9 does not speak against committed homosexual unions

10/27/06: Can one make a reasoned case against homosexual practice without citing Scripture?

10/16/06: Requests for clarifications on my positions regarding Gen 2, the meaning of unnatural, and the relevance of Dutch gay marriage

10/16/06: Questions about genetic influence and moral relevance

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Response to a skeptical evangelical leader who wants to know whom I have "'delivered' from homosexual orientations"

[The following is from an evangelical leader whom I have reason to believe supports some degree of acceptance of homosexual unions and is seeking ways to support the homosexualist agenda without alienating the audience for the leader's message. I understood the request based on this broader context (which I cannot disclose here); that is, as a way of undermining my scriptural arguments through questioning whether my teaching converts homosexual persons into heterosexual persons.]

From: X
Sent: Fri 5/9/2008 4:35 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
 

Dear Robert, 

It would be most helpful to me if you could give me the names and addresses of people who have been “delivered” from homosexual orientations as an outgrowth of your ministry.  Could you give me the names and addresses of people whom you have led to Christ because of your particular approach and teachings on this subject?  Being a ___________, I am very interested in case studies and I approach the whole subject from that perspective, even as you approach the subject by an analysis of the biblical text.  If you can help me, it would be most appreciated. 

Sincerely,

X

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Saturday, May 10, 2008 6:03 PM
To: X
 

Dear X, 

My ministry is not one of "delivering people from homosexual orientations." I have received many thanks in my speaking engagements, and occasionally through emails, from people who say that my teaching has helped them to recognize what God's will is for their lives and to be encouraged that God is able to empower them to obedience in their behavior whether or not they are "delivered from same-sex attractions." I do not keep track of these. Working with people to manage and sometimes diminish same-sex attractions would require an "Alcoholics Anonymous" approach, i.e. long-term therapeutic help and group networking. This in itself would be a full-time ministry and it is not what I do, given the demands made on me in teaching and publishing. 

A bit troubling (though I acknowledge that I could be reading too much into your request) is the apparent presumption that "deliverance" must take the form of losing a homosexual orientation. When did God ever predicate a single one of his commands on people first losing all desire to violate the command in question? Isn't the reason why God gives commands and prohibitions because there are people with innate urges to violate them? Is the monogamy principle applicable only to people with no polysexual orientation? Is the principle of no intercourse with prepubescent children (and for our culture the whole of adolescence) applicable only to persons not so "oriented" with a pedosexual orientation? (Incidentally, do you keep track of persons who have been delivered from polysexual and pedosexual orientations or alcoholic predispositions? And, if not, why not?)  

Isn't the whole of the Christian life a struggle against the warring passions of the flesh, which God requires us not to succumb to and, when we do succumb, to repent, however many times for the rest of our life this takes (Gal 5:16-18)? Is it the case that when Paul says in 1 Cor 6:11, "and these things some of you were," he means that the offenders in the offender list in 6:9-10 no longer experience innate urges to commit offenses when they become washed, sanctified, and justified by believing in Christ and receiving the Spirit of God? And if it doesn't mean that (and it doesn't) what then does Paul mean by "and these things some of you were"? Does he not mean that they have "reoriented" themselves to be crucified with Christ, to die to selves, and to live for God by having Christ live in them through their gratitude for Christ's redemption (Gal 2:19-20)? 

And what is the shape of God's grace here? According to 2 Cor 12:7-10 grace is most profoundly experienced when, in answer to our fervent entreaties to be delivered from some distressing circumstance, God says "no" and explains "My grace is sufficient for you; my power will be brought to completion in and through your weakness." Is the "no" a cause for depression and defeatism or the realization that this is a formative moment for being shaped more vigorously into the image of Christ?  

Do you, as a ___________, keep track of these stories? Perhaps you should. These are the real success stories. Anybody can obey God when no particular stressful circumstances arise from the obedience. But to obey God in a manner that requires one to take up one's cross, deny oneself, and lose one's life, is to know what it means when Paul says "for me to live is Christ" (Phil 1:21) and "may it not happen that I boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom the world has been crucified to me and I to the world" (Gal 6:14). Do we, with Paul, bear the marks or scars of Jesus on our body that comes with being crucified in relation to the world and our own fleshly passions and desires (Gal 6:17; 5:24)? The message of the cross is the message of life. The message of "gratify your urges that violate God's will but do so with the fewest negative side-effects" is the message of death (cf. 2 Cor 2:14-17). If I were to preach the latter message, I would have easily removed a great deal of stress in my life that has come for defending the male-female character of sexual relations over the past decade (cf. Gal 5:11). 

As you might note from my open letter to the President of Toledo (here) I focused on socio-environmental influences on homosexual development combined with congenital influences and the role of incremental, often blind and indirect, choice. I didn't say that, once acquired and deeply imbedded, same-sex attractions are easy to diminish in intensity, much less get rid of. But a culture that provides a full-court press for affirming homosexual practice to children from (in some areas of the country) first grade on up will have a significant impact, I believe, in increasing the incidence of homosexuality (and I don't mean just an increase in the number of people who, already having same-sex attractions, come "out of the closet"). In that sense, as well as in its attraction for behavior incompatible with embodied existence, a homosexual orientation is most definitely not like race and biological sex. 

I hope this response is helpful to you.  

Blessings, 

Rob

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What about no reproduction in heaven and the existence of "complementary" homosexual unions?

From: Judy
Sent: Fri 4/18/2008 9:36 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: Your views on homosexuality

Dear Dr. Gagnon,
I've read with interest your well-documented views on homosexuality...

However, is it not true that people are not to be defined solely by their physical appearance?  Is not the physical, the earthly body, a temporary body, given its outline and desires produced by hormones for the general purposes of reproduction of the race?  Will our spiritual bodies, given to us someday in the realm of eternal life, be defined likewise as "male and female"?.   We don't really know, but I think not, as there is no need for reproduction in Heaven. 

Here in San Francisco, I have as friends a couple who are most certainly heterosexual, yet she is very "dominant, butch, assertive" while he is more "feminine, diminuitive, responsive".  You've probably experienced the same things in some couples that you are acquainted with.   In other words, emotionally they are not the so-called "norm", but certainly they are emotionally "complimentary" and compatible. 

Likewise, I've met many homosexual couples here in San Francisco who are likewise complimentary in the realm of emotional/spiritual: one may be somewhat "dominant, assertive, initiating" while the other is "gentle, passive, receiving" in their entire self.  In other words, they DO "fit" together", as companions and soul-mates and (perhaps) partners, despite their physical sameness.  In my 17 years of living in SF, I have really not seen many long term same-sex relationships which are based on "sameness" - in fact, those seem to be very, very few-- and frankly yes, narcissistic.  Most couples  I've met are  very different -like salt and pepper -and  refreshing to  experience as a  "couple".  This, despite their same sex. 

As you are already aware, the earthly body is temporary, but our relationships will continue on into eternal life.  Could it be that you are deceiving yourself about the true complexity of the situation, just because physical parts (man/woman) "fit" for reproductive purposes?  This is perhaps a mystery, and perhaps too big for us to comprehend  with our human minds.  The angels, are, apparently, sexless.  What will it be like for us then, to relate with one another in heaven, without bodies that address the gender issue?  Hmmm.

Sincerely,
Judy
San Francisco, CA
 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Friday, April 18, 2008 11:48 PM
To: Judy
Subject: RE: Your views on homosexuality
 

Dear Judy, 

Thank you for your thoughts on the matter. In response, I offer two observations. 

First, you are right that "there is no 'male and female" (Gal 3:28), along with other texts in Scripture (e.g., Jesus' saying about no marriage in heaven), suggest a limitation on the ongoing validity of male/female differentiation. But to argue for the validity of homosexual unions misses the point that the end of the significance of sexual differentiation for mate selection spells the end of all sexual relations. So long as sexual relations are permitted, a male-female prerequisite is in place. We won't be having sex in heaven--Jesus' statement about no marriage in heaven is clear about this. What we will have is unmediated access to God which will make sexual relations look dull by comparison. 

Second, the fact that some persons in homosexual relationships show some complementarity  features (you note dominance and passivity) does not make them complementary in the truest or deepest sense. Those who are in such relationships confirm this when they claim exclusive attraction to members of the same sex, do they not? If maleness or femaleness did not have significant reality, in a holistic sense, beyond certain typical social constructions, there would be no such thing as exclusive homosexuality. If all a dominant male sought was a passive partner, then either a passive male or a passive female would do. If a passive male sought a dominant partner, either a dominant male or a dominant female would do (etc.). Yet the persistence in claiming that only a person of the same sex will do is tacit acknowledgement of a multi-level reality to maleness and to femaleness.  

Same-sex attraction is attraction for, well, the same sex. A homosexual man who had a gender nonconforming childhood may seek another man as a means of compensating for his (the former male's) perceived deficiencies in maleness. Yet the lie and self-deception is that he was and remains a male. A homoerotic union regularizes the self-deception. 

I hope that this makes sense to you. 

Blessings, 

Rob 

 

From: Judy
Sent: Thu 4/24/2008 8:37 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: Re: Your views on homosexuality

Dear Dr. Gagnon,
Well, not exactly.  People are at all different places on the Kinsey Scale. Some profess only attraction to one sex or another, but others are in the middle of the scale, and can have loving (and sexual) relationships with either sex (as long as it is with someone who they are attracted to and are compatible with).  The problems arise not on the individual level, but at the societal level, where those who are uncomfortable with those of a different sexual persuasion than their own have to be "running the show", so to speak.  But it's not "our show" it is the Lord's.  We are all a part of the play...

Sex is not just for pro-creation.  It is also for bonding purposes as well.  You apparently have some very black and white views on sexuality.  Unfortunately, the world has a lot of grey areas which we aren't necessarily capable of understanding the reason for existing.  It's not always important that the "female" and "male" ends of the pipe fit perfectly.  Instead, its about relationships - loving, caring and growth-oriented.  

I would like to invite you to "come and see" for yourself.  Come experience the San Francisco that I know, with same sex couples who are faithful, monogamous, Christian, raising children successfully, loving and caring people, not narcissistic in any sense.  Challenge yourself to see what is out there, and then ask yourself if this isn't from God.   So when can you come and visit?

Sincerely,
Judy

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Friday, April 25, 2008 12:12 AM
To: Judy
Subject: RE: Your views on homosexuality
 

Dear Judy, 

Thank you for your second email. With all respect, I think it demonstrates that you need to read my remarks more carefully; even more, that you need to begin reading my main works. 

Of course there are people at different ends of the Kinsey scale. This is not news to me. You missed my point that the existence of some exclusive or near-exclusive homosexuality (a Kinsey 5 or 6), which incidentally is the dominant manifestation of male homosexuality, shows that there is a fundamental recognition of something identifiably male or female that transcends particular cultural affects of maleness or femaleness. Even bisexuals recognize the difference. So do the roughly 98% of the population that is exclusively or predominantly attracted to one sex. 

Again you miss my point that complementarity extends well beyond procreation and even beyond the anatomical fittedness. Arguing that opposition to homosexual practice is exclusively predicated on its nonprocreative character is like arguing that opposition to adult incest is exclusively predicated on potential procreation problems (i.e. birth defects), a problem that, incidentally, would not apply to homosexual incest. There is a holistic dimension to maleness and femaleness that extends to anatomy, physiology, and psychology. By definition persons erotically aroused by their own sex are erotically aroused by what they already are, male for maleness, female for femaleness, at every level. The attempt to merge with one's own sex is buying into the self-deception that one's own sexuality as a male or female is not intact but needs structural supplementation and not just structural affirmation. 

No, the problems in homosexual relationships don't arise simply or solely from societal "homophobia." They arise first and foremost from the fact that putting two (or more) people of the same sex in a sexual union doesn't moderate the extremes of a given sex or fill in the gaps; hence, male homosexuality experiences disproportionately high rates of problems that are different from the types of disproportionately high rates of problems in female homosexuality, differences that are typical of their respective genders. 

Now these problems are merely the symptoms of the root problem: the attempt to merge with someone who is not a true sexual complement. Of course there are some committed homosexual relationships. No consensual sexual relationship of any sort--not adult incestuous bonds or adult-committed polyamorous relationships, not even pedophilic practices--produce intrinsic, scientifically measurable harm. 

The fact that you can refer to committed homosexual relationships as something that you think I don't know about shows that you have not read, or understood, my work. Commitment in a homosexual relationship no more validates the union than would commitment validate an adult-consensual incestuous or polyamorous union. As Paul knew at Corinth, commitment in an incestuous bond does not morally improve the quality of the relationship because, having failed to meet the structural prerequisites, the relationship should have ended yesterday. You say that I am "black and white." And yet you are no less "black and white" in affirming homosexual unions and thinking that those who disagree with you are wrong. And are you "black and white" in rejecting adult-committed incest and polyamory? Or is this too a grey area for you? After all, as you say, as long as the relationships are about bonding and are loving, who could be opposed to them?

Go to www.Oprah.com, specifically http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/200710/tows_past_20071026.jhtml?promocode=ssend20071026TD and see also the videos of the show at www.video.aol.com under “Oprah Winfrey & Lisa Ling interview Mormon Polygamists.” You'll see that there are some loving, caring polygamous relationships that appear to be raising children successfully. By your definition of what constitutes an acceptable sexual union, which apparently includes no formal prerequisites for structural, embodied correspondences, it satisfies all the requirements. You will have to agree with Oprah: "The best part of doing this job … [is that] I come in with one idea and then I leave a little more open about the whole idea. And what I realize … is that in every situation there are people who give things a bad name. There are difficulties and then there are people who handle those difficulties differently." 

Of course, Jesus closed the door on the permission that Moses gave to men to marry more than one woman and did so by appealing to the twoness of the sexes in creation, "male and female God created them." Completing the sexual spectrum by joining the two and only two primary sexes makes all third parties unnecessary, whether serial or concurrent. But since the binary or sexually dimorphic character of man-woman unions is not essential for you, you have no logical, scriptural, or creation-based ethic for limiting the number of partners in a sexual union to two, so long as the sexual union is loving. You "say" that it has to be monogamous but you don't explain why it must be and indeed have no legitimate basis for asserting that it must be. People are, after all, capable of loving more than one person concurrently (witness a parent's love for all his or her children, for example). A problem for your argument is that you do not recognize the special requirements placed on sexual unions that are not placed on non-sexual loving relationships.

At this point rather than continue to repeat responses that I have already given elsewhere, I am going to ask you to read my response to the Myers/Scanzoni book at http://www.westernsem.edu/files/westernsem/gagnon_autm05_0.pdf, at least pages 30-45, 98-101, 125-28, before responding, so that I don't have to reinvent the wheel here. Thanks for your attention to these matters. 

Blessings,

Rob

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A question from a seminary student about the exploitation argument

From: C
Sent: Wed 4/16/2008 6:11 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: Romans 1:26 - a question from a [PCUSA] seminary student

Dr. Gagnon:

I am now a (second career) M.Div student at [a PCUSA seminary]. In conversation with one of the professors on campus here the statement was made about Romans 1:26-27 that "Paul had no idea about the kind of homosexual relationships we know today...what he was talking about was man to boy sex, with a wife at home ... the NT world knew nothing about long-term committed homosexual relationships as we know them today."

My question to you is how to refute that statement. I have heard (but cannot recall where) that there were a group of Greeks (phonetically it seems like they were described as "kenides" who did engage in what today's culture would describe as long-term, committed homosexual relationships). Is my recollection correct? If so, are you able to fill the memory gaps for me? If not, is there any semblance of argument against that statement? I have your book if you can point me to a reference there.

Many thanks for the work you do, as well as being available for questions such as mine!

C. 

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2008 7:50 PM
To: C.
Subject: RE: Romans 1:26-27 - a question from a [PCUSA] seminary student
 

Hi C., 

The professor making this argument simply doesn't know the material well.

That Paul had in view all homosexual relationships is evident from the fact that: (1) Paul had the creation texts in the background of his indictment, which had the male-female prerequisite in view; (2) Paul used a nature argument that was not limited to man-boy sex; (3) Paul indicted lesbianism in 1:26, which was not typically conducted on adult-adolescent model; (4) Paul spoke in 1:27 of the mutuality of the desire "for one another"; (5) Paul referred to "soft men" in 1 Cor 6:9 which in context could be used of adult males who feminized themselves to attract male sex partners (the kinaidoi/cinaedi); (6) caring adult homosexual relationships in antiquity were known; (7) some Greco-Roman moralists indicted homosexual relationships absolutely, including adult relationships; (8) relationships between adult males were thought to be worse than relationships between a man and a boy because adult men had, or should have, outgrown the "softness" of adolescence and so were wholly inappropriate as the receptive partners in male-male intercourse; (9) early Jewish prohibitions were absolute (one rabbinic text even specifies that the Levitical prohibitions refer to an active partner that is adult and a passive partner that is either adult or adolescent. 

See further my article at http://www.westernsem.edu/files/westernsem/gagnon_autm05_0.pdf , pp. 65-77. 

For point 6 above see my first talk at Princeton Seminary rebutting Stacy Johnson's use of the exploitation argument; go to http://robgagnon.net/ArticlesOnline.htm 

Finally, the best thing to do would be to find a group on campus that could bring me over to your institution to do a few lectures on the subject. But if that is not possible the resources above should suffice. 

Blessings, 

Dr. Gagnon

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A testimony from a pastor who has dealt with bisexual urges

[This testimony from a pastor speaks for itself. I thank the writer for his courage.]

From: R.
Sent: Thursday, August 30, 2007 10:09 AM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: Your letter to the Evangelical Leader
 

Rob, 

I appreciate your response to the Evangelical leader (here).

I think it is spot on. 

What you say leads me to share a bit about why I know you are right, and why  I too take this stuff so seriously. I ask your indulgence as I share something personal. You can use it if you find it worthy of such, although I ask that you withhold using my full name. 

The reason I know you are right, and why I take this so seriously myself is that I did struggle with homosexual/bisexual impulses when I was a teenager (starting around 16). 

I came from an immediate family where no father was present. My brother and I were not close. The only male close in proximity was the man my mother chose to sleep with (and he was an alcoholic, both abusive emotionally and physically, even asking my mother in a drunken rage to have sex with me). Clearly, male bonding in a filial or paternal sense was not something I felt was available to me. 

Further, there was a general acceptance of sexual immoral behavior in the family. My mother, her father, her sister and brother were all acting out in ways that were contrary to the Scriptures, and this was not hidden from the children's eyes.  

It is within this context that I began to have an attraction for men and women. When it occured to me that I might be homosexual or bisexual, I was horrified. I was not horrified because the family would be upset, or society would be upset. No. I lived in a very "liberated" (although really enslaved) home; and I grew up in South Florida which is almost as laid back about things sexual as San Francisco. 

I was horrified, because I knew this is not the will of God for me or anyone. I cannot tell you the number of arguments I got into with my mother and other family members because I brought out the Bible and showed them what I read about obedience, and sexual purity, and the like.  

Given this, I remember being in my room and praying. I said (and this is a paraphrase), "I know that what I feel isn't right. You have said that I must either have marriage with a woman or celibacy (Matthew 19). If I am not to be married, given my impulses; then grant me the grace of celibacy. I for my part WILL NOT ACT upon the impulses that I feel. Help me to be faithful to you." 

I did not act on the impulses. I was given the grace of the Lord to remain faithful. I was also blessed with a faithful pastor who reminded me that it was no sin to be tempted by thoughts I did not choose, but it was a sin to keep bringing them up or to act upon them. I asked the Lord to help me understand what was going on in me, for truly something wasn't ordered right in my life. 

That breakthrough happened one day when I went to visit my father. I shared with him some of what was going on with me, and he realized (before I did) that he needed to spend more time with me (listening and talking time). When this happened, I realized by God's grace that I was simply disordered in distinguishing what I truly wanted with men. I did not desire sexual bonding. I desired philial bonding. I wanted brothers...the right kind of love that God desires between men. With women, the desire was more of a sexual nature. That too had some disorder, and it took me more time to deal with that (and sometimes I still need to deal with that whenever I see a steamy beer commercial during a football game). 

The point here I want to make is that I was encouraged by the Lord himself, by the Scriptures, by the church to remain faithful to the sexual ethic found in the Scripture. If I had acted on my impulses; if I had been encouraged to act out on my disordered thinking; I would be in a damnable situation...it would be far more difficult to extricate ones self from that. 

I have spoken with young men who have had similar impulses and come out of a similar background. I have shared with them how I handled those temptations to sin. I tell them to do nothing with the impulses. Do not act upon them. Ask the Lord for the grace to be patient and live faithfully. Seek out faithful pastors who will help you stay the course. I tell them they are not abnormal, but at their stage in life when the hormones go crazy, the devil uses that moment to help disorder their thinking and their living. Be patient. Be faithful. 

To encourage civil laws or church wide mandates that would invite people to act against the law of God invites disaster...as indeed inviting people to engage in any sin brings disaster. It just isn't loving. It isn't what Jesus calls us too. I wish people would understand that. I grieve for others who have been led down the path of "sexual tolerance" because now their position is worse than before, and many don't even know it. It gets harder to bring them out, for now they hear that the "church" says its okay. 

I have a passion about this, because I know what the Lord can do. I know this disorder. I know in myself that it can be beaten, but not acting upon it is a key part of the battle! 

I can honestly say that I haven't had the impulse for sexual relations with men for 21 years. I am married to my wife and have two children (of which one is with the Lord praying on my behalf I hope...if not I'm going to have to have a talk with that boy). I do not say that I don't deal with sexual temptation and sin in my life, but I can say that the sexual temptation that I truly struggle with is not homosexual or bisexual. Further, I can say that the reason I struggle so much with the temptation I do have (pornography) is that I opened that window to my soul by engaging in a habit. I have repudiated the habit, but the temptation feels like a greater burden, because I opened myself up to it as a young man by acting on the temptation to look at it. 

Again, not acting on the temptation would have been better. I didn't give myself over to obedience as I should, and did with the other impulses. I reaped the consequences. This is why also I am not only against homosexual sexual behavior, but I know the damning nature of sexual immorality in all its forms. It is terribly important that we encourage folks to cease and desist and not act on sexual temptations that go outside the norm established by our Lord in Genesis 2 and Matthew 19. 

Well, this is long. I apologize for the length and I apologize if I have spoken in ways that give you more info than you really want about me. However, you are right on. Keep up the fight. The souls of many are at stake. 

Peace in the Lord Jesus Christ!

R.

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Is heterosexual cohabitation grounds for denying church membership?

From: Bill
Sent: Tuesday, September 04, 2007 10:44 AM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: e-mail question @co-habiting couples/membership

Dr. Gagnon- In over 25 years of pastoring in the PCUSA, I have consis-tently raised questions about the legitimacy of granting membership to those living in unrepentant hetrosexual sin, by reference to the arguments against unrepentant homosexual sin. (For I am assuming that in both the issue is that of discipleship and a Christian sexual ethic, and the call for God's people to live in joyful holiness.)  Though I have had to respond to requests for membership of gay couples, the issue of co-habitating couples comes to the foreground with greater frequency, and I have discovered that people are much more reluctant to raise questions about co-habiting than they are of same-sex relationships. I've read through most of your articles, and though you repeatedly refer to what you  describe as extreme sins, would sexually active, co-habiting couples fall into the same category, since in my mind, they are delaying repentance (ie, either celibacy apart or moving into marriage immediately)? 

Thanks-- Bill

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2007 12:45 PM
To: 'Bill'
Subject: RE: e-mail question @co-habiting couples/membership
 

Dear Bill, 

Thank you for your inquiry. My answer is: No, it is not as serious as homosexual practice but, yes, it is serious enough to connect to membership issues. 

The offense of unmarried heterosexual cohabitation is not as extreme an offense as adult incest or homosexual practice, which are unnatural acts that attempt to merge persons too much structurally alike. (Indeed, I know of no one who would argue seriously that heterosexual cohabitation is as serious an offense as, say, having sex with one’s parent.) Heterosexual cohabitation is not a grossly unnatural act. But the persons involved should recognize that by virtue of the sexual union they are “one flesh” and for all intents and purposes are held to the standard of married couples (compare 1 Cor 6:16 which treats even sex with a prostitute as creating a “one flesh” union, albeit in this instance an unholy one). Since marriage requires a commitment to a lifelong bond they should have no difficulty in expressing that commitment in a formal marriage ceremony. Reluctance to do so is likely evidence that they have not made such a commitment and, therefore, must either make such a commitment (presumably through the normal channels today for making such a public declaration, i.e. marriage) or dissolve the sexual bond. In short, refusal to marry is evidence that they are just “trying out” a sexual relationship and therefore committing sin. Since Jesus intensified God’s demand that his followers not engage in sexual activity with more than one other person of the other sex lifetime (see Matt 19), cohabitation without marriage should be treated as an offense that warrants withholding membership; or, if membership is already in place, removal from the fellowship of the church until repentance.  

From a pastoral standpoint, I recommend having a personal meeting with the offenders, going through Jesus’ teaching on marriage in Matt 19, highlighting the importance of obeying Jesus as his disciples, and explaining that membership can only be granted (or actively retained) if they marry or dissolve the sexual bond. I also recommend, if you haven’t already done so, that you regularly preach on the importance of sexual purity and marriage. I doubt that they would want to become members of a church that clearly declared their behavior to be sin, if they insisted on staying in a sexual relationship outside of marriage. 

Hope this helps, 

Rob

 

 From: Bill
Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2007 1:54 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: RE: e-mail question @co-habiting couples/membership
 

Rob- thanks for the quick and thoughtful reply. Struggling with the reality of this in both the context of performing ceremonies as well as in membership has been one of the more difficult areas of pastoral ministry for me. I originally began to wrestle with this in earnest back in 1993 when a p/sa homosexual desired to become a member of my former congregation. (He didn't because he wouldn't break off his relationship.) Through the firestorm that decision engendered in that entire community, I realized I also needed to think more clearly about the implications of heterosexual sin for membership. Though it seemed to me that the arguments I used against homosex behavior were appropriate for hetersex behavior as well, I did recognize that heterosexual behavior is potentially redeemable, through marriage and repentance, whereas homosexual behavior is not, so the arguments can't be sustained completely.

Anyway- thanks for the the direction and encouragement! I will keep you in prayer as you stand in the midst of the fray.

Bill

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2007 2:10 PM
To: 'Bill'
Subject: RE: e-mail question @co-habiting couples/membership
 

Bill, 

You're welcome. Good line about heterosexual cohabitation being potentially redeemable but homosexual relations not. 

Rob

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Did Jesus Change the Law's Stance on Capital Sentencing?

From: T.K.
Sent: Friday, June 15, 2007 1:13 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: "The Witness of Jesus" Question

I appreciated the time you put into your chapter "The Witness of Jesus" in your book, "The Bible and Homosexual Practice".  I have always wondered how we can put together how Christ did not abolish the law yet we find Christ prioritizing the law differently.  Your summary has shed much light on the issue.  Yet, I do have one question that still strikes me as a theological problem.  You see Christ associating with "sinners", such as prostitutes.  Christ freely associated with these people, while he spoke out against the practices he did not push for the punishment that the Old Testament called for.  My question(s)- Why does Christ no longer approve the punishment required in Old Testament law for such offenses as adultery?  Is the Old Testament more like Christ than we realize?  For instance could repentance save one from stoning in the Old Testament?  Or is Christ changing everything?  Most people would recognize this change for the better, does this mean the New Testament is closer to God's character than the Old Testament?  I have found little to help me with these questions.  If you can't answer these maybe you could forward them to someone who could help.  Thanks, T.K.

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Friday, June 15, 2007 1:31 PM
To: T.K.
Subject: RE: "The Witness of Jesus" Question
 

T., 

Good questions. Capital sentences in the OT are implemented whether or not the person repents. I see Jesus as recommending against implementation of the capital sentence, at least from non-lethal offenses such as sexual immorality, in the hopes of recovering the person through repentance. I see this as a change. It’s not that the offense is lesser in Jesus’ eyes but rather that dead people don’t repent. Something worse than a capital sentence is coming down the pike: the Day of the Lord. Jesus is giving offenders every opportunity to repent before that Day to avert personal cataclysmic disaster. 

Dr. Gagnon

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Hate Mail from an Angry Left-of-Center Pastor with a 'Wonderful' Pastoral Manner

From: Robert Martin III [mailto:rmartin@fprespa.org]
Sent: Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:38 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject:
 

Dear Robert, 

What a sad, sick man you are!  I take great pity on you as a pastor! 

Sincerely, 

The Rev. W. Robert Martin, III

[Senior Pastor, First Presbyterian Church, Palo Alto, CA]

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:49 PM
To: 'Robert Martin III'
Subject: RE:
 

Dear Rob, 

Thanks for your piece of hate mail. Since my views are in obedience to Jesus and the entire apostolic witness I don’t feel “sad” or “sick” and therefore don’t need your “pity.” By the way you need to work a bit on your pastoral manner. 

I noticed on your church’s website that you are a so-called “More Light” church (really “Less Light” if the teaching of Jesus and the apostolic witness are our guiding lights). No great surprise there. Thanks for sharing with me your “light” and love. It’s been illuminating. 

Robert A. J. Gagnon, Ph.D.

 

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A Question about Eternal Security and Sexual Immorality

From: Mark
Sent: Thursday, April 26, 2007 2:20 PM
To: Robert Gagnon
 

Dear Dr. Gagnon: 

     Even as one who has learned a great deal from you through your articles, as a Presbyterian minister I must take exception to one aspect of your teaching regarding whether a lady would go to hell if she is in a lesbian relationship [RG: see email below].  Your answer, as I saw it, stated that it wasn't a given but a possibility seemingly based solely on this one thing.  Homosexual activity is a sin (it's ironic that those who view that portion of Leviticus 18 as no longer relevant do see all the other teachings there on sinful relationships there as still in effect - incest and bestiality to name a couple). 

    However: Heaven is based upon what he did on the cross, and our acceptance of Him as Savior.    Fornication, Fathers Not Being Involved in the Lives of Their Children, Lying, Divorce, Not Helping Those in Need if You Can, for example, are also sins, but no one seems to suggest that those who continue to lie from time to time, who left pregnant women to raise kids on their own, or who are who are divorced and remarried are all in danger of hell.  Jesus does call them to change their ways as part of following Him and He always will, but to say that the promise of eternal life may now be null and void even if they truly believe (albeit erroneously) that God says homosexual activity based on orientation as okay seems extreme.      

    Let me be clear.  I do not excuse these activities or homosexual activity.  Having Jesus as Lord means having him as Lord in all of your life.  I know that passage in Galatians 5:19-21.  I am angered that we in the PC(USA) seem to told not just to acknowledge homosexual behavior but to celebrate it.  All are sins that I confront equally as a child of God.  When I hear the suggestion, though, that the Lord puts this one sin in a separate category regarding eternal judgment, raises concerns for me that we've gone from one sandy foundation to another another (Matthew 7).  James 2:8-13- "Whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at one point is guilty of breaking all of it."  All Christians are called to be different.  All Christians also continue to be sinners, too. 

   Forgive me if I have misinterpreted what you stated there.   Is this what you are saying?    

Mark

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Thursday, April 26, 2007 5:50 PM
To: Mark
 

Dear Mark, 

The question you raise has to do with the larger question of eternal security, classically defined as “once saved, always saved.” I do not subscribe to it because I don’t believe that Jesus or any NT author, including Paul, subscribed to it. There are literally dozens of texts that make this point. The thought here is not that individuals must merit their salvation but rather that the absence of transformation or the presence of serial unrepentant immoral behavior of an extreme sort demonstrates a fatal deficiency in faith, i.e., in not letting Jesus live in one by grace. When Paul says in 1 Cor 6:9-10 that sexually immoral persons, including those who engage in incest, adultery, and man-male intercourse (and by extension lesbian intercourse) shall not inherit eternal life he is not making this statement only about unbelievers. Both the context of the Christian incestuous man in ch. 5 and the analogy of a Christian, a person who is really and truly joined to Jesus, having sex with a prostitute in 6:12-20 make clear, in my opinion, that he also has in view believers who live immoral lives. It is because the incestuous man’s eternal life is at risk that Paul takes the extreme measure of putting him on church discipline, in the hopes that he might be saved on the Day of the Lord. 

Thus also he could say to the Thessalonian believers, in the earliest extant New Testament document:

 

For you know what commands we gave to you through the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God: your holiness, that you abstain from sexual immorality (porneia) . . . [and not live] like the Gentiles who do not know God. . . . because the Lord is an avenger regarding all these things. . . . For God called us not to sexual uncleanness (akatharsia) but in holiness. Therefore the one who rejects [these commands] rejects not humans but the God who gives his Holy Spirit to us. (1 Thess 4:2-8)

And to the Galatian Christians:  

The works of the flesh are obvious, which are: sexual immorality (porneia), sexual uncleanness (akatharsia), licentiousness (aselgeia) . . . , which I am warning you about, just as I warned you before, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. . . . Stop deceiving yourselves; God is not to be mocked, for whatever one sows that one will also reap. For the one who casts seed into one’s flesh will reap a harvest of destruction and decay from the flesh, but the one who casts seed into the Spirit will reap a harvest of eternal life from the Spirit. And let us not grow tired of doing what is right for in due time we will reap, if we do not relax our efforts. (Gal 5:19-21; 6:7-9)

In 2 Corinthians Paul expresses deep concern that 

I may have to mourn over many who have continued in their former sinning and did not repent of the sexual uncleanness (akatharsia), sexual immorality (porneia), and licentiousness (aselgeia) that they practiced. (12:21)

Mourning is mourning over death, the possible loss of eternal life for believers who live in this manner. Later, in Rom 6:19-22 and 8:12-14, Paul urged Roman believers to reverse the trend of the immoral life described in Rom 1:24-27, otherwise loss of eternal life would ensue: 

For just as you presented your members as slaves to sexual uncleanness (akatharsia) and to [other types of] lawlessness for the sake of lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness for the sake of holiness (or: sanctification). For when you were slaves of sin, you were free with respect to [the demands of] righteousness. What fruit did you have at that time? Things of which you are now ashamed, because the end (or: outcome) of those things is death. But now, since you have been freed from sin and enslaved to God, you have your fruit for holiness (or: sanctification), and the end (or: outcome) is eternal life.

The message of Ephesians is similar: 

[N]o longer walk as the Gentiles walk, . . . who . . . have given themselves up to licentiousness (aselgeia) for the doing of every sexual uncleanness (akatharsia). . . . Sexual immorality (porneia) and sexual uncleanness (akatharsia) of any kind . . . must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. . . . Know this indeed, that every sexually immoral person (pornos) or sexually unclean person (akathartos) . . . has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God is coming on the children of disobedience. (Eph 4:17-19; 5:3-6)

And there are many other texts. For me not to say what I said would leave out the whole counsel of God. The deception that a number of the above texts refer to is deceiving oneself into thinking that, as a Christian, who could continue in serial unrepentant sin of an egregious sort (like adultery, incest, same-sex intercourse, sex with prostitutes) and get away with it. It’s not limited to same-sex intercourse. The divorce/remarriage analogy is not a good one, both because Scripture does not treat it as serious an offense (though serious) and because it tends not to be serial behavior (unlike repeated acts of homosexual practice). I would agree, too, that regular, particular grievous non-sexual forms of behavior could also get one excluded from the kingdom of heaven even if one confesses Jesus as Lord. 

I realize that Christians have differing views on this issue. I am convinced by Scripture itself that loss of salvation is real and possible for believers. In that sense I am always reforming in the direction of Scripture, or at least trying to do so here. 

I hope this helps, 

Rob

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Do you think I would still go to heaven when I die if I am in a lesbian relationship?

From: B
Sent: Wednesday, April 25, 2007 9:34 AM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: sexuality and heaven

 

Hello Dr. Gagnon,

   I just have a question. I am struggling with my sexuality in a very real and painful way. I have been in the process of trying to change to a heterosexual orientation for almost three years now. Let's just say I am not there. I was never out as a lesbian, only had a couple of very short term relationships, and then the work at change. My question is this: Do you think I would still go to heaven when I die if I am in a lesbian relationship? If I live as a lesbian do I have to stop my relationship with God?  I know I shouldn't be asking how close to the line can I get, but that is where I am at right now. I want to fight for the right for people to have a safe place to work at changing sexual orientation, but I can see the attraction of leading a double life.  

Just curious about your opinion. 

Thanks for your time.

~B.

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Wednesday, April 25, 2007 10:26 AM
To: B.
Subject: RE: sexuality and heaven

 
Hi B.,
 
Thanks for your thoughtful question. You're right that it is asking how close to the line one can get. I only know that Scripture indicates same-sex intercourse is a more foundational violation of God's sexual standards than even adult consensual incest; that engaging in such a behavior in a repetitive, unrepentant way puts one at serious risk of being excluded from the kingdom of God and the eternal life it offers. Jesus indicated, in a context that had to do with sexual issues, that what you do sexually can get you thrown into 'Gehenna' (hell); that if your hand, eye, or foot should threaten your downfall, cut it off, because it is better to go to heaven maimed than to go to hell full-bodied (Matt 5). That's a fairly serious warning. Now I'm not saying that I know when an individual crosses the line and it's too late to return, if ever. Only God knows that. But neither can anyone assure you that you will escape God's judgment; for one as much plays God when one acquits as when one condemns. But Scripture tells us that there is high risk in provoking God, so why risk it? If a person of great wealth offered you 50 million dollars if you were able to stay away from a lesbian relationship for 5 years, would you risk losing it all by secretly entering in such a relationship and possibly getting caught? Probably not. Well, God is asking us to be faithful for a relatively short duration of time--the life of a human on earth, which is a drop in the bucket compared to the eternity ahead of us. And then there is the thought that God and Jesus love us so much that Jesus' life was given for our sakes. Would we really want to dishonor him if we could see him standing by our side, hands outstretched with the imprint of nails still there? I doubt it, And yet he lives within us.
 
It may be that God will not change your "orientation," although women are much more likely to experience significant shifts on the "Kinsey spectrum" in the course of life than are men, so there is a good chance that you will experience marked reduction in at least the intensity of the homosexual drive and possibly develop some limited heterosexual functioning. But then again, maybe not. I'm not God there either. I do know that, like Paul's "thorn in the flesh," sometimes God says "no" to a request to remove this or that circumstance that brings perceived deprivation to our lives. Not just "no" but "no" because "my grace is sufficient for you" within the experience of deprivation, that God's power will be "brought to completion" in the midst of one's weakness rather than taking one out of it. Often Christ is most formed in us when we don't get we ask for, when we have to rely on the one who raises from the dead, when we have no strength left on our own. No commandment of God is predicated on people first losing all desire to violate the command in question; on the contrary, commands are issued by God precisely because humans want to do otherwise. Your true test as a believer is not whether you will changed over to a total heterosexual but whether in your particular circumstances you will come to the conviction that knowing Jesus (Phil 3) is better than getting what you want, when you want it, and with whom you want it with. When we can look a temptation 'in the face' and say "I'd rather have Jesus," then we have made progress. In the deepest sense, in doing God's will we are not being deprived. We are getting something better, something that made Paul and other believers willing to count everything else as loss because of the surpassing value of knowing Christ.
 
None of us get a pass from Jesus' demand that we take up our cross, deny ourselves, lose our lives, and follow him. But when we do this we also find that, in comparison to what the world asks of us, his yoke is easy and burden light. Our "flesh" will say no, but our spirit will say yes. I'd rather have Jesus.
 
Blessings,
 
Rob
 
Dr. Robert Gagnon

 

From: B. 
Sent: Thursday, April 26, 2007 9:22 AM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: RE: sexuality and heaven
 

Dr. Gagnon,

    Thank you for your thorough and gentle reply. I appreciate your time.

-B.


 

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Jack Rogers and Analogies

4/5/07

Dear Dr. Gagnon

I was just reading your piece on analogies in response to Jack Rogers’ book and your response to his response to you.  I suspect that he and others choose slavery and women's ordination as analogies to the interpretation of Scripture in relation to the question of homosex behavior because they deal with justice issues.  In other words the analogies are chosen not because they are close analogies or distant analogies but rather because they fit in the category in which the author sees the current issue.

Now, as to Rogers’ assertion that the justification of slavery is tied to Scottish Common Sense Realism as an interpretive technique, I suspect he is correct.  Mark Noll, in his, The Civil War as a Theological Crisis, argues that it was precisely the naive method of interpreting the Bible used by American Christians prior to the Civil War that allowed many to believe that slavery was allowed according to the Bible.  The method used a propositional reading of the text.  I would suggest, but I am not quite as sure, that the arguments against the ordination of women followed a similar method, particularly when those opposed to the ordination of women argued that Paul's teaching, or maybe I should say their interpretation of Paul's teaching trumped narratives about women in leadership as direct teaching was to be held higher than narrative.

I am not quite as sure how Roger's argument about divorce fits in this same schema. 

My concern is that I do not use the methods of the Old Princeton Divines in my interpretation of Scripture.  I find not only specific passages that say that homosex behavior is sinful but also a broad theme within the Bible that supports a God created binary relationship between men and women.  I find this broad theme from Genesis to Revelation, in creation texts, in analogies between marriage and the relationship between God and Israel and Christ and the Church, as well as in particular passages about marriage and sexual behavior.  The whole of Song of Solomon is a case in point.  None of the songs portray male/male or female/female sexual attraction!

My point in all of this is to suggest that when one begins with analogies that are related to justice, as Rogers does in his book, and then declares that those who disagree with those analogies must therefore use a particular method of interpreting Scripture, one has said 1 + x = 2, but cannot prove that x=1.  One can use other methods than Old Princeton methods of interpreting the Bible and still come to the conclusion that homosex behavior is sinful.

Maybe the real problem is not only in the particular analogies chosen but also in the reason for the choice of analogies.  If one chooses a justice framework for one's analogies, as Rogers has, then one suggests that the question at hand is one of justice.  Rogers’ begins his book, not with his arguments about the proper methods one must use to interpret Scripture and not with his interpretation of relevant passages of Scripture but with his analogies.  One has to wonder then if analogies produce exegesis of vice versa.

One last comment on an issue that is not directly related to your argument.  You say, in response to Roger’s use of ethnicity and gender as analogues to homosexual orientation and behavior: 

Second, Rogers is also once again mixing apples and oranges. Ethnicity and gender cannot be compared with specific impulses to do what Scripture pervasively, strongly, absolutely, and counterculturally forbids. Rogers does not seem to understand the distinction. Quite simply, ethnicity and gender are: 

·                     100% heritable

·                     absolutely immutable

·                     primarily non-behavioral

·                     inherently benign

Homosexual “orientation,” like many impulses, especially sexual impulses, is: 

·                     not 100% heritable

·                     not absolutely impervious to outside influences

·                     primarily behavioral

·                     thus not necessarily benign

Unfortunately the history of racism in the United States makes the question of ethnicity a political and social question as well as a question of heredity.  If one has a white father and an African American mother, or vice versa, one is still considered to be African American by the dominant culture, with all the social, political and criminal assumptions that go along with that designation.  That is part of, (and I believe falsely used), Rogers’ analogy.  The dominant culture makes unconscious assumptions about the behaviors of people who are African American.  The dominant culture also makes a variety of assumptions about people who are gay or lesbian which are not necessarily accurate, such as the assumption that a gay male uses feminine gestures and/or behavior and that some lesbians exhibit male gestures and behavior.  But these assumptions about gays and lesbians are not only false but also beside the point.  The problem is with homsex behavior, not with one’s gestures.  Thus Rogers’ analogy, based on the prejudices of the dominant culture, is false.  The problem is not prejudice, it is Biblical interpretation.  And the problem is not that all who disagree with Rogers’ on the issue of the sinfulness of homosex behavior “[get] it wrong is that they were relying on Scottish Common Sense Philosophy (including appeals to “natural law,” selective literalism, and proof-texting) and the scholastic theology of Francis Turretin instead of the teachings of Jesus Christ,” to quote Rogers.  We don’t.  I don’t and from what I read of your methods, you don’t either.  Rogers fails because he depends on outdated information on the heritability of homosexual inclinations, failed interpretations of particular passages of Scripture, and fails to note the broad theme in Scripture that supports lifelong, monogamous heterosexual marriage. 

Bob

A PC(USA) Pastor 

One final note:  I believe I have used the term, “homosex” in the same way that you have in your writings.  It is my intention to use the term to refer specifically to sexual relations between people of the same sex.

 

6/28/07

Dear Bob,

Thank you for your stimulating comments.

It is true that Rogers chooses slavery and women's ordination because they correspond to justice categories. But that does not make Rogers' choice of distant analogies over close analogues irrelevant. The proper purpose of engaging in analogical reasoning is to assess what categories best fit the issue in question through comparison-cases that share the greatest number of correspondences. To eschew the closest analogues in favor of distant analogues is to predetermine one's own results--here endorsing homosexual practice is a social justice issue--and thus to make analogical reasoning superfluous. The 'game' of analogical reasoning becomes fixed from the start. You make this point yourself midway through your comments.

As to your point about Scottish Common Sense Realism, you are quite right that the Bible's opposition to homosexual practice is not limited to specific texts and that a two-sexes prerequisite underlies every discussion of sexual relationships in the pages of Scripture. This is confirmed, as I showed in my other critiques of Rogers, by an examination of relevant scriptural texts in their literary and historical context--a context that Rogers repeatedly misunderstands and shows poor knowledge of. But I wouldn't go as far as you in discounting the relevance of appeal to specific texts. The degree to which specific texts in Scripture take a strong position about a matter is a vital part of an overall assessment of Scripture's stance on homosexual practice. In debating the merits and demerits of adult consensual incest between a man and his mother (or stepmother), one would be foolish to give little attention to the Levitical and Deuteronomic prohibitions as well as Paul's words about the incestuous man in 1 Corinthians 5. Appeal to specific texts is not only possible but desirable, so long as they are read correctly in their historical and literary context. The fact that Paul likens homosexual practice to idolatry as particularly severe instances of suppression of the truth about God transparent in material creation, sees it as a violation of male-female sexual complementarity (a point confirmed by the historical context), and makes an absolute indictment that includes every and any type of homosexual union unacceptable (another point confirmed by the historical context) is very important for an overall evaluation of homosexual practice in Scripture. But perhaps (or even probably) you would agree with this point.

On your last point I agree that society at different points may add false prejudicial characteristics to ethnicity and femaleness that would increase resemblances to homosexual practice (this is Rogers' point). But my point is that Scripture itself does not consistently share these prejudices (nor does reason) and to the extent that Scripture does not (and reason does not) is the extent to which the analogies with homosexual practice break down. For example, the New Testament rejects the notion that being a Gentile is in the first instance an intrinsic desire to do what God expressly forbids but it does not reject the same notion for homosexual desires. Nor (obviously) should it inasmuch as there are lots of innate sexual desires that violate embodied or formal realities and Scripture's strong prohibitions. I could say more on this but I think my article already does that. Again, I think we are not far apart from each other on this point, if we are apart at all.

I appreciate your thoughts,

Rob

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A Person with Homosexual Desire Asks: How Does One Decide Which Commands of God in Scripture to Follow?

From: Paul
Sent: Saturday, March 31, 2007 1:17 AM
To: Robert Gagnon
Subject: Basic Question on Christian Ethics
 

Dear Dr. Gagnon... 

FINALLY, I have met (or in this case read) of a scholar on this current rift of homosexuality in the church. I am so grateful that you are well-studied (my nephew is a recent graduate of Dartmouth, and I received a M.Div from [name of seminary withheld]).  

As for my background, . . . . I felt strangely called to the altar to serve my Lord. Living in [the South] in a conservative Diocese, my rector advised me to "leave the Episcopal Church" as the current row at that time (this was 1988) was not "really" about women, but about letting gays be ministers "because if we let women be ministers, then we have to let gays as well." I let my call drop, as I was indeed sexually attracted to men, and was afraid (and ashamed) that I would "be found out" in the Episcopal discernment process.  

At this stage in my life, I was attending very conservative Bible studies, getting involved in things like "Jesus Go-Fests", attending charismatic worship services....and FERVENTLY praying that Jesus bring me the right woman. Because I was ashamed of my attraction to men,  I cannot tell you how many times I prayed to the Almighty to take this burden from me. I dated something like 10 women - all wonderful, great looking Christian women - but nothing- no urge to kiss...nothing. I continued praying fervently, and dating...hoping, and praying that I would meet "the one." One day, one of the women that I was dating told me that she had been praying about Jesus' Great Commandment and had focused on the last part of the command - "as you love yourself..." Needless to say, this started the ball rolling on how I was treating (and loving) myself, and indeed, how God had created me.  

Why do I write this to you? Obviously, my theology has changed since my conservative-evangelical days as a Christian (for your information, I define Christian as one who believes that Jesus is the expected messiah as prophesied in the Old Testament.) Yes, it was the Great Commandment that brought me out of the closet (and a sermon from one of the priests, when he talked about who the Good Samaritan was...in the parable of 'the neighbor.') As an Episcopalian, in Midland Texas, every Sunday I heard the words "this is the basis of ALL the laws..." in connection to the Great Commandment. Hence, that Commandment has become the basis of my Christian ethics... IF I do something that causes any harm in my relationship with God, which causes me to love God less, and/or if I do something wrong which causes my neighbor not to Love God...it is wrong.   

My question to you: I don't understand, in all my reading of your scholarship, on how being homosexual causes me to love God any less.  For me, this is the basis of Jesus teaching...it is as simple as that.   

In my discussions of this great theological debate with my good conservative brothers and sisters in Christ, I have asked the question, which I do not get an answer: "How do you decide what Biblical precepts to follow, and how do you judge what not to follow?" Other than the Great Commandment, I have not found "a magic formula" or central ethic...other than "well, if it says it in the Bible, then that is what I do..." Of course, you know that the Bible says many things that we no longer follow (for example, there is NO mass killing of children who curse their parents (Lev 20.9)... And, my Priest from Fort Worth was right: from the New Testament verse as we DO allow women to speak in church (1 Corinthians 14.34), we do allow women to teach men (see Tim 2.12, 3.8)... these are contrary to New Testament teachings.  

So, very sincerely, how do you order your life and figure out your basic ethic on living? I have been trying to understand how evangelicals order there lives, what basis of ethics do they use, since obviously they pick and chose what to believe in the bible... I have found NO ANSWERS. 

Paul Philpy

 

From: Robert Gagnon
Sent: Saturday, March 31, 2007 3:41 PM
To: Paul
Subject: RE: Basic Question on Christian Ethics
 

Dear Paul, 

As you know from my work I am not an inerrantist with regard to the interpretation of Scripture. I recognize tension and sometime even disagreement within the canon of Scripture. Jesus himself overrode the Mosaic exemption given to men as regards polygyny and divorce by appealing to the inherent “twoness” of the sexes as a basis for limiting the number of persons in a sexual union (whether serially or concurrently) to two—a point, incidentally, that has enormous ramifications for your position on homosexual practice. There are indeed some gray areas in interpreting what commandments to follow and not to follow. There is no doubt, too, that philosophic reason, scientific reason, and experience assist us in the decision-making process.  

At the same time, the degree to which a given view of Scripture can be regarded as a “core value” determines the weight of the burden of proof on those who would argue for a deviation from the biblical witness. The more pervasive, absolute, strongly held, and counterculturally held a given view is in Scripture the more evident it is that this view belongs to a core value. Scripture’s witness for a two-sexes prerequisite for marriage and against homosexual practice is, in my view, a core value in Scripture’s sexual ethics—precisely because it is a value held pervasively, absolutely, strongly, and counterculturally. So claims such as yours, namely that loving homosexual bonds are within God’s will, have a huge mountain to claim to demonstrate that such a view is compatible with Scripture’s “big picture.”  

It becomes even more difficult to make the case when one realizes that alleged “new knowledge” arguments (exploitation, orientation, or misogyny arguments) are really not radically “new” pieces of information for the Greco-Roman milieu and thus, are not likely to have changed the views espoused by Scripture’s authors. Throw into this mix the basic problems of attempted merger with, and erotic desire for, sexual sames (a nature argument) and the scientific evidence for disproportionately high rates of measurable harm in homosexual unions (owing, significantly, to the absence of a true sexual complement in same-sex pairings) and the case for overriding the overwhelming evidence of Scripture fragments. 

If you really want to give careful consideration to the issues that you have raised to me then I recommend that you read two things that I have written. First, read my recent article “How Bad Is Homosexual Practice according to Scripture and Does Scripture’s View Apply to Committed Homosexual Unions?” at http://www.robgagnon.net/articles/homosexWinterResponse.pdf (especially the two appendices that address the two questions of the title directly, pp. 12-22). Then read my “Why the Disagreement over the Biblical Witness on Homosexual Practice” at http://www.westernsem.edu/wtseminary/assets/Gagnon2%20Aut05.pdf. You can get the table of contents for this article at http://www.robgagnon.ne